I recently texted this prompt to a friend who is in her last year of teaching English before retiring after almost 30 years in the classroom. Here's the prompt:
What would you have been grateful to know sooner in your teaching career that you know now? If possible share that info with a colleague who is newer to the profession if possible.
If I could answer that question, I might give my younger self the following advice:
1. It's a marathon, not a sprint.
Take lunch breaks and don't work through lunch with students in the room for the first 10 years in the classroom.
Along those same lines, I would also reduce some of my grading load. I would have one box of ream paper that I graded from just tests during one year. That didn't also include things like homework and binder checks or any digital work during the year. There was a level of torture in grading 96 European History AP exams with 2 essays per kid plus a short answer question. The amount of bad handwriting I had to endure is meritorious of some type of prize equivalent to a Pulitzer, Booker or Nobel.
2. Give grace when its healthy.
High school is a stressful time of transition for many students. Teachers have long had strategies to build in both equity and fairness into the school system. Dropping the lowest test grade of the semester, giving out homework passes, giving an extension on a paper without a penalty are a few of the tried and true methods teachers have used.
3. Don't be duped and manipulated.
Wisdom is knowing the difference between a student who is being lazy and needs boundaries and a student who genuinely needs an extension on a deadline. I recognize that thinking that a student is lazy is not a charitable view. In our current classroom culture after the pandemic the pendulum has swung to an extreme. Deadlines are against some school's policies. Students then don't engage in the iterative learning through the semester and then expect some type of miracle learning at the end of the semester. Kids often appreciate boundaries and expect adults to enforce them. You are adult, don't be afraid to act like one when a child is acting childish. Help your student become the better version of themselves and find self esteem through a challenging accomplishment.